It’s that time of year when many homeschooling moms start to feel overwhelmed. It could be the upcoming holidays, the endless materials to prepare, or simply all the amazing activities every other mom seems to be doing. Pinterest and “super”mom bloggers can make me feel that way, and my kids are grown and on their own!
I just want to share a few ideas that you moms (and dads) might find helpful (or reassuring) if you’re intimidated by the thought of Montessori homeschooling, or if it’s all just become too much lately. If you’re happy with what you’re doing, that’s awesome! Continue on! If you are feeling overwhelmed, it’s fine to step back and see what you might want to do differently, at least for awhile.
If you’re overwhelmed, don’t worry about changing materials as often.
As a Montessori teacher, I didn’t use unit studies. I had the basic Montessori materials on the shelves and rotated art and cultural materials periodically (along with adding a few seasonal materials). Typically, two weeks before a major holiday, I put out some holiday-themed trays. As a Montessori homeschooler, I did the same thing. We started using unit studies when my son was in first grade, so my daughter (the youngest) had a few themed activities, although not very many.
I think unit studies are awesome, but they can feel overwhelming if you create hands-on activities for everything. If you’re overwhelmed, don’t worry about changing your theme as often, or simply create fewer numbers of hands-on materials. We did a lot of reading together during our unit studies. Getting books from the library is one of the simpler parts of homeschooling, and it’s fine to emphasize that if your children enjoy books. Of course, you always need to observe your child’s needs, interests, and natural learning style.
But you don’t need to be the “perfect” Montessori homeschooler for your child to get many of the benefits possible from a Montessori homeschool education. When you think about it, how many materials did Maria Montessori rotate in her original Children’s Houses? And look at all the amazing results she saw!
You don’t need to live in a complete mess or overwork yourself keeping a perfectly clean house.
Luckily, Montessori education is designed to help you keep your house livable. If your kids don’t already help you, be sure to emphasize practical life activities for care of the environment along with other practical life activities. Not only will your kids be able to help you with housework, but they’ll develop better concentration, order, and other positive skills.
My Montessori-raised kids are much better organizers than I am and are able to take better care of a house than I can. It was easier to keep a clean house with them than without them! It’s nice to know that practical life activities really do have many purposes, which you’ll appreciate the more you devote time to practical life activities even if you put off some academic work in the meantime.
You don’t need to duplicate a Montessori school.
You really don’t need every material a Montessori school has. John Bowman’s Montessori at Home eBook has lots of ideas for inexpensive materials or simple alternatives. I have lots of roundup posts on DIY Montessori materials with many ideas that are simple to prepare.
If you feel overwhelmed at the thought of making materials, see if your husband or someone else can help you prepare materials. Maybe you even have older children who could help make materials for younger children. Preparing materials together can be a fun experience, and many of the preschool Montessori materials are helpful for older children as well.
Also, check out the online sites for “Where to Buy Montessori Materials.” In the comments on that post, you’ll find lots of recommendations from parents and teachers of companies that offer relatively inexpensive yet good-quality materials. You’ll find it much easier to just buy some materials. And certain materials I would buy because the wooden Montessori materials are beautiful and difficult to duplicate (such as pink tower, brown stair, and red rods) … unless, of course, you are or have access to a skilled craftsman who would enjoy making them.
You don’t need to have perfect laminate edges on everything (or anything).
Yes, I had laminate edges on everything as a Montessori teacher. It’s typically not essential as a Montessori homeschooler. You can see what I would use when laminating for homeschool purposes in this post: “Montessori-Inspired Music Appreciation: Peter and the Wolf.” You can even print out materials that will get light use on glossy photo paper (or insert pages in binder sleeves), skipping laminating entirely. Of course, I homeschooled pre-Internet, so I typically had to buy cards already printed out and then laminate them. At least there are many more options now!
You don’t need to re-create the wheel.
Don’t try to homeschool without some sort of plan. If you’re homeschooling a preschooler, have a set of Montessori albums you use as a checklist. There are free albums online (links are in my “Free Montessori Materials Online” post.) You could copy and paste the table of contents into a grid with columns for presentation, date presented, working on, and mastered. You could even simply print out the table of contents and make notes and checkmarks on it. If you’d like to purchase albums for ages 2½-6 (with many activities good for 7-8 year olds), I recommend the Montessori Print Shop Primary Teaching Albums (See my review: “Montessori Print Shop Primary Teaching Manuals.”). The albums are very clear and simple … perfect for staying on track with what’s important in Montessori education.
If you’d like an inexpensive training course for homeschooling ages 2½-6 that includes a set of American Montessori Society albums (along with online support), check out Karen Tyler’s KHT Montessori Online Training Course. (I have a review and more information here: “Free Montessori Geography Album.”)
If you’re homeschooling one or more elementary-age children, you might either follow the traditional Montessori curriculum or use Montessori-inspired unit studies. Or you might add some Montessori-inspired materials to a classical curriculum.
Since I started elementary homeschooling in 1991, it wasn’t feasible to use a traditional Montessori elementary curriculum at home. I used Montessori-inspired unit studies, which worked well for my children and me. That still works well for many families. You can always use Great Lessons for unit studies, too. You’ll find lots of ideas in my Montessori elementary posts that are linked to on my Montessori Resources page.
You can always use some sort of checklist like the Scope and Sequence at Homeschool Share (in whatever order you prefer) to be sure you’re covering a good number of areas. Or you can loosely follow a curriculum like KONOS (what we used) for basic structure while using Montessori-inspired activities in your unit studies. My post “How to Create a Unit Study” tells more about what we did.
If you’d like an inexpensive training course for homeschooling ages 6-12 using a traditional Montessori curriculum that includes a set of Association Montessori Internationale albums (along with online support), check out Jessica Welsh’s Keys of the Universe training. (I have more information here: “Keys of the Universe Montessori Elementary Training.”)
Without taking any training, you can also get lots of help inexpensively from Lisa Nolan of Lisa Nolan’s Confessions of Montessori Mom Blog. Lisa Nolan is a 3-6 and 6-9 trained Montessori teacher with over 20 years of experience as a Montessori educator. Lisa offers affordable detailed online lesson plans and albums. You can find out more about Lisa’s homeschool monthly program for ages 6-9 at Montessori for the Earth (affiliate link).
Whether or not you take an elementary training course or use an online program, you’ll probably find it helpful to use workplans at the elementary level.
You don’t need to follow what works for others online.
You really just need to follow your own child. That’s what Montessori is about anyway. Observe your child to see what he or she needs and is interested in. It’s literally impossible to do everything you find online. You’ll find many more activities at Living Montessori Now than you could ever do, too. I definitely don’t expect you to try to do all the activities I share. I offer a lot because I know that different activities appeal to different parents, teachers, and children.
As a homeschooler, you have the luxury and privilege of following your unique child’s needs. If you’re doing a unit study, just pick the activities that you’re drawn to or that you feel your child will be drawn to. That’s what I did when I homeschooled my own children. If something looks too difficult or overwhelming for you to attempt, choose something else.
You don’t need to forget about yourself.
Maria Montessori emphasized the inner preparation of the teacher. For you as a parent, it’s important to try to find something that helps center you. I have a post with some ideas here: “Take a 30-Minute or 5-Minute Me-Break.”
YOU DON’T NEED TO BE PERFECT!!!
This is always my main advice to homeschoolers. As difficult as it can be, it’s important to realize that you don’t need to be perfect. I started every year with a plan of unit studies for the year. My weekly plans didn’t go as well. They typically became more sketchy as the year went on.
Sometimes your imperfection can actually be helpful. I think my kids became more self-directed because I didn’t have everything overly planned. They kept their love of learning and went on to thoroughly enjoy their university experiences. They were able to be very self-directed in their university studies and even got straight A’s. If they didn’t learn something in our homeschool, they knew how to find the answers on their own.
So don’t worry. You have many years to cover things. If you’re doing Montessori elementary homeschooling using traditional Montessori curriculum, you have six years to cover the Montessori Great Lessons. If you’re doing Montessori-inspired homeschooling using unit studies, you’ll typically do unit studies more than once. There isn’t such a need to rush. You don’t need to be perfect.
Here are a few posts you might find reassuring: “Don’t Be Afraid to Start Using Montessori at Home,” “How to Be a Relaxed Homeschooler” and “Top 5 Homeschool Lessons My Children Taught Me.”
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