Welcome to the March 2012 Carnival of Natural Parenting: Parenting With Special Needs
This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Hobo Mama and Code Name: Mama. This month our participants have shared how we parent despite and because of challenges thrown our way. Please read to the end to find a list of links to the other carnival participants.
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I always loved Montessori education for children with special needs because of its individualized, hands-on learning. Maria Montessori’s first work teaching children was actually with children who had developmental delays.
After working with intellectually disabled children, Maria Montessori said she taught a number of the children “to read and to write so well that I was able to present them at a public school for an examination together with normal children. And they passed the examination successfully” (The Montessori Method).
This laid the foundation for Montessori education. Montessori education is used today for many types of children, including children with special needs. A number of parents and sites offer activities and ideas related directly to Montessori education and special needs. Below are some blogs and other sites that offer Montessori-inspired special-needs information and activities.
I’m dividing the sites into categories according to special need, although I realize there are often overlapping areas. I’m just listing each blog under a primary area of Montessori-inspired posts and/or information.
General Montessori-Inspired Special Needs Support
“Montessori and the Special Needs Child” from Montessori for Everyone
The Montessori Intervention Programs, Inc. (website)
Montessori Special Needs (website)
“What about Children with Special Needs?” from The Montessori Foundation
“Montessori Education and Your Child” from American Montessori Society
“Montessori and Special Needs” (discussion) at BabyCenter
“Is Montessori homeschool suitable for working with children with special needs? From NAMC’s 3-6 Montessori Homeschool Program
“Is Montessori only for “gifted” children?” Video with Karen Wagner, Director of Cottage Montessori
Montessori-Inspired Down Syndrome Support
Montessori on a Budget (blog) by Lisa Nolan (photo at the top of this post from Introduction to Montessori Writing)
Montessori and Special Needs (blog) by Lisa Nolan
Confessions of a Montessori Mom (blog) by Lisa Nolan (photo from “Which Montessori Sensorial Materials Do I Buy for My Two and Five-Year-Old?”)
Montessori Spanish (blog)
We Can Do All Things (blog) (photo from “Snowflake Colors”)
“Montessori on the Cheap” from Praying for Parker
Ups and Downs of O (blog)
Montessori-Inspired Sensory Processing Disorder Support
“Montessori Education: Sensory Processing Disorder Part 1 of 4″ (links in post to parts 2-4) from North American Montessori Center
Montessori-Inspired Autism/Asperger’s Support
“Special Needs Children in the Montessori Classroom” from North American Montessori Center
“An Interview with Michelle Lane of The Lane Montessori School for Autism” from Montessori for Everyone
Barefoot in Suburbia (blog) (photo from “Montessori Monday – Our Homeschool Classroom”)
Montessori and Special Needs (blog) by Lisa Nolan
“Montessori: A Special Education” from The National Autistic Society
“Unstructured Time In….The Missing Sock Zone” from Asperkids (blog)
Creative Learning Fun (blog)
Every Star is Different (blog)
Little Bins for Little Hands (blog)
Montessori-Inspired Speech Therapy Support
Raising Little Rhodies: “Montessori-ish” category (photo from “a little blue rice with your oral motor workout?”)
Montessori and Special Needs (blog) by Lisa Nolan
Montesori-Inspired ADHD Support
“Apropriate Montessori Method for ADHD” from Montessori and Special Needs by Lisa Nolan
Montessori-Inspired Dyslexia Support
Dealing with Dyslexia from Montessori for Everyone
Special Needs Pinterest Board
I have a Special Needs Pinterest Board with special-needs support of all types.
If you have a blog with Montessori-inspired special-needs support or know of one I missed, please let me know!

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Visit Hobo Mama and Code Name: Mama to find out how you can participate in the next Carnival of Natural Parenting!
Please take time to read the submissions by the other carnival participants:
(This list will be live and updated by afternoon March 13 with all the carnival links.)
- Parenting A Child With Neutropenia — Jennifer at Hybrid Rasta Mama discusses the challenge of parenting a young child who cannot produce enough neutrophils to fight off bacterial infections.
- How I Love My High Need Baby — Shannon at GrowingSlower was shocked to find she is parenting a high-needs baby, but she’s surviving thanks to attachment parenting.
- We’re a Lot Like You — kaidera at Our Little Acorn talks about how her family is similar to others, even with all their special needs
- The Emotional Components of Bonding with Preemies — Having a premature baby can bring on many unexpected emotions for parents, but working through those emotions can bring about a wonderful bonding experience. Adrienne at Natural Parents Network shares.
- Raising a babe with IUGR: from birth through the toddler years — Rachel at Lautaret Bohemiet shares the story of how her son’s post-birth IUGR diagnosis affected his first days of life and gave her an unexpected tutorial in advocating for their rights as a family.
- When a grandparent has a disability — Shannon at Pineapples & Artichokes shares how she has approached explaining her mother’s disability to her young child.
- Taking The Time To Really See Our Children — Sam at Love Parenting writes about her experiences working with children with various disabilities and how it has affected her parenting style.
- Natural Parenting In An Unnatural Environment — Julie at What I Would Tell You gives us a glimpse into how she improvised to be a natural parent against all odds.
- Getting Through the NICU — Laura at Authentic Parenting gives a few pointers on how to deal with your newborn’s stay in the NICU.
- Living With Sensory Processing Disorder — Christy at Adventures in Mommyhood talks about the challenges that can come from living with a child who has SPD.
- Our rules for NICU – March Carnival — Hannabert’s Mom shares her family’s rules for family and friends of a NICU baby.
- Letter from Mineral’s Service Dog — Erika at Cinco de Mommy imagines the letter that accompanies her special needs son’s Service Dog.
- Blessings in Unexpected Places — That Mama Gretchen welcomes an inspiring guest post from a dear friend who shares about the blessings that come from a child with Down syndrome.
- Tube Feeding with a Blenderized Diet of Whole Foods — Erica at ChildOrganics shares her experiences with using real food when feeding her daughter who was unable to feed herself and needed a feeding tube.
- Abbey and Evan — Amyables at Toddler In Tow writes about watching her preschooler play with her friend who is autistic and deaf, and wonders how she can explain his special needs better.
- How to Minimise the Chance of a {Genetically Prone} Child Being Diagnosed with ADHD — Christine at African Babies Don’t Cry shares her tips on keeping a child who is genetically prone to ADHD from suffering the effects.
- Tough Decisions: Parenting With Special Needs — Brenna at Almost All The Truth shares what has been keeping her up at night worrying, while spending her days discovering just what her options are for her precocious child.
- Life with my son — For Dr. Sarah at Good Enough Mum, life with an autistic child is just another variation on the parenting experience.
- Dear Special Needs Mama — Sylvia at MaMammalia writes a letter of encouragement to herself and other mamas of special needs children.
- His Voice — Laura at WaldenMommy relives the day her son said his first sentence.
- What is ‘wrong’ with you’ The challenge of raising a spirited child — Tara at MUMmedia discusses the challenges of raising a child who is ‘more’ intense, stubborn, and strong willed than your average child.
- Tips for Parenting a Child With Special Medical Needs — Jorje of Momma Jorje shares her shortlist of tips she’s learned in parenting a newborn with special medical needs in a guest post at Becoming Crunchy.
- Parenting the Perfectionist Child — Mandy at Living Peacefully with Children discusses that as parents of gifted children, we are in the unique position to help them develop the positive aspects of their perfectionism.
- Montessori-Inspired Special Needs Support — Deb Chitwood at Living Montessori Now gives a list of websites and blogs with Montessori-inspired special-needs information and activities.
- Accommodating Others’ Food Allergies — Ever wonder how to handle another family’s food allergies or whether you should just skip the play date altogether? At Code Name: Mama, Dionna’s friend Kellie (whose family has a host of allergies) shares how grateful she is when friends welcome them, as well as a list of easy snacks you can consider.
- Only make promises you can keep — Growing up the child of a parent with a chronic illness left a lasting impact on Laura of A Pug in the Kitchen and what she is willing to promise for the future.
- A Mom and Her Son — Jen at Our Muddy Boots was fortunate to work with a wonderful family for several summers, seeing the mother of this autistic son be his advocate, but not in the ways she thought.
- Guest Post from Maya at Musings of A Marfan Mom — Zoie at TouchstoneZ is honored to share a guest post from Maya, who writes about effective tools she has found as a parent of two very special boys.
- You Don’t Have to Be a Rock — Rachael at The Variegated Life finds steadiness in allowing herself to cry.
- When Special Needs Looks “Normal” — Amy at Anktangle writes about her experience with mothering a son who has Sensory Processing Disorder. She offers some tips (for strangers, friends, and loved ones) on how to best support a family dealing with this particular neurological challenge.
- Special Needs: Limitation or Liberation? — Melissa of White Noise describes the beauty in children with special needs.
- How I Learned It’ll Be Okay — Ashley at Domestic Chaos reflects on what she learned while nannying for a boy with verbal delays.
- Attachment Parenting and Depression — Shannon at The Artful Mama discusses how attachment parenting has helped her get a clearer image of herself as a parent and of her depression.
- On invisible special needs & compassion — Lauren at Hobo Mama points out that even if we can’t see a special need, it doesn’t mean it’s not there.
- Thoughts on Parenting Twins — Kristin at Intrepid Murmurings shares her approach to parenting twins.
- ABCs of Breastfeeding in the NICU — Jona at Breastfeeding Twins offers tips for establishing breastfeeding in the alphabet soup of the NICU.
- Life With Michael – A Mother’s Experience of Life With Aspergers Disorder — At Diary of a First Child, Luschka’s sister-in-law Nicky shares her experience as mother to a child on the Autism Spectrum. It is filled with a mother’s love and devotion to her child as an individual, not a label.
- Raised by a Special Needs Mom — Momma Jorje shares what it was like growing up as the daughter of a mother with a handicap.
- Becoming a Special Needs Mom — Ellen at These Broken Vases shares about becoming the mother of a child with Down syndrome
- She Said It Was “Vital” — Alicia of Lactation Narration (and My Baby Sweets) discusses the conflict she felt when trying to decide whether therapy was necessary for her daughter.
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Excellent resources, Deb – and I’d forgotten that about Montessori’s background! Thank you for compiling these links.
Thanks so much, Dionna! I had been wanting to write this post for awhile … how perfect that the Carnival of Natural Parenting is about special needs this month!

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Incredible source of information – Thanks, Deb!
Sasha
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Thanks for your kind comment, Sasha! I’ll plan to update the post as I find new resources, too.

Deb recently posted..Montessori Monday – DIY Tactile Boards and Extensions
That is so interesting — I had no idea Montessori started with special needs children. It makes perfect sense, though, and it’s great that it’s so adaptable to all children in their uniqueness. Thanks for sharing these resources!
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Thanks, Lauren! I was always fascinated with the origins of Montessori education … first with intellectually disabled children left in asylums and then with children in a tenement house in Rome. I think it’s more meaningful that Montessori education didn’t start with children who had every privilege.

Deb recently posted..Montessori Monday – DIY Tactile Boards and Extensions
What a great resource! Loved hearing more about the history of Montessori – thank you for putting this all together!
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Thanks so much, Kelly! I love the history of Montessori education, and I’m glad the Carnival of Natural Parenting gave me the opportunity to explore the special needs resources available online.

Deb recently posted..Montessori Monday – DIY Tactile Boards and Extensions
Both my husband and I dealt with gifted programs in school. Due to that, we always knew we would homeschool in some shape or form. We didn’t want our own children to have to deal with a system ill equipped to meet their needs. While we have added many, many other reasons for our choice to unschool since then, that remains a main consideration.
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Thanks for your comment, Mandy! Many schools are definitely unable to meet the needs of gifted children. We didn’t have access to a Montessori elementary school, and that was a consideration when we started homeschooling, too. I love individualized learning for all children but especially for gifted children.
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Thanks so much for including us, Deb! I would like to add one more link, about dyslexia: http://www.blog.montessoriforeveryone.com/dealing-with-dyslexia.html
Thanks!
My pleasure, Lori! And thanks so much for the link … I added it to my post!

Deb recently posted..Montessori Monday – DIY Tactile Boards and Extensions
Another great collection of resources! I didn’t realize Maria Montessori had worked with special needs children, but it makes sense now.
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Thanks, Sylvia! It does make a lot of sense, doesn’t it?!

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Thank you so much!
My pleasure, Lori! Thank you for all the wonderful resources you have at Montessori for Everyone!

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FANTASTIC POST Deb!!!!! I am going to have to come back and read through all these resources tomorrow (it’s bedtime here!) but this is just awesome!! Thanks for including my blog on your special needs pinterest board!
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Thanks so much for your kind comment, Katie! I always appreciate the great freebies and other resources you share at your blog!

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Wow! Fantastic compilation!
I’ve a girl with eczema and actively promoting eczema through blog eczemablues.com, support group and even set up a fund in Singapore. This post gives me new ideas to raise awareness!
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Thanks, MarcieMom! It’s wonderful that you’re doing so much to help individuals with eczema … good luck!

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Thanks so much for this Deb! I can’t wait to dig into these resources. This is an area we struggle with in the atrium. I have four children with special needs in my group alone, and have actually hired an aide to help us week to week. As always you are such a great support! Many blessings to you this Lent.
Leslie
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Thanks for your kind words, Leslie! I’m so glad this is helpful for you. I love what you do with your atrium and blog and am glad if I can help in any way. Many blessings to you, too!

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WOW! What a fantastic list of resources, for so many different special needs! Great work, it must have taken quite awhile to compile this link list; what a valuable page!!! I will definitely bookmark this one! =)
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Thanks so much, Melissa! I was excited to find so many helpful resources.

Deb recently posted..Montessori Monday – DIY Tactile Boards and Extensions
Great blog post Deb! And thanks for the feature! I featured your blog/post (with a link-back) here: http://montessorispecialneeds.blogspot.com/2012/03/montessori-inspired-special-needs.html
You’re amazing!
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Thanks for your very kind comment, Lisa! And thanks for linking to me in your post. I think you’re amazing, too!

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While I never attended Montessori schools, I was homeschooled, and it made a complete difference as someone suffering from Asperger’s Syndrome. Now I am in college and run http://www.mildaspergers.com . If it were not for the special care of my parents, I don’t know if I would have ever discovered my talent.
I’m so glad homeschooling worked well for you! My kids didn’t have Asperger’s Syndrome, but homeschooling was perfect for bringing out their unique talents, too.

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Teens with ADHD have a very difficult life. This condition is one that you may not even realize that your child has. In many cases, the symptoms are so few that you do not see that it is there. In fact, they know it is, but you do not. ADHD is a learning disability and a behavior disability that causes many more problems than just a temper tantrum when they are five years old. ADHD teens face many problems throughout their childhoods and well into their adult lives.
Glad that there are institutions that cater to children with special needs.
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Find the right pre school is a a difficult choice for any parent but for those with children with special needs it is much harder. This page is a really useful resource thank you.
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