The Loving Parents of Children with Special Needs – Everyday Superheroes

 

When I asked myself who my everyday superheroes are, the first thought that came to mind was the loving parents of children with special needs. I have many online friends who are parents of children with special needs. And I’ve been very impressed with the loving way most of them approach their lives and the courage they show in becoming advocates for their children. I also have a nephew with cerebral palsy, and I’ve seen the extra work and trials my sister and her husband handle gracefully as loving parents … the tests, therapies, surgeries, recoveries that have become a natural part of their lives.

In honor of those everyday superheroes, I have a roundup post of “Montessori-Inspired Special Needs Support.” The post is organized according to specific special needs.

Here are some helpful posts for any parents of children with special needs:

•          “What I Wish I’d Known about Having a Child with Special Needs” by Jennifer A. Janes (Special Needs Posts from Jennifer A. Janes)
•          “Four Ways to Turn Your Fears into Courage When Your Child Is Born or Diagnosed with a Disability” by Eliana Tardio
•          “A Special Child” from Four Plus an Angel
•          “10 Things I’ve Learned from My Child {with Special Needs}” by Sandra Casson at Playing with Words 365

Here are some helpful posts about supporting individuals with special needs and parents of a child with special needs:

•          “15 Things Never to Say to a Special Needs Parent” by Dr. Darla Clayton, Psy.D.
•            “You Know We Have a Special Needs Child, But Here are 10 Things We Might Not Have Told You” from Health, Home & Happiness
•         “7 Things Not to Say to Parents of Kids with Special Needs” and “What to Say to Parents of Kids with Special Needs” by Ellen Seidman
•         “Normalising Difference: Discussing Disabilities Is Not Taboo” by Kate Gribble from An Everyday Story
•         “7 Practical Ways to Help a Special Needs Family” by Ellen Stumbo
•         “How to Help a Parent with a Special Needs Child” from Band Back Together
•         “What to Say When Meeting Someone with Special Needs” by Lacey Buchanan
•          “6 Things Parents of Kids with Special Needs Wish You Would Say” by Jeanne Sager

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This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Hobo Mama and Code Name: Mama. This month our participants have talked about the remarkable people and characteristics that have touched their lives. Please read to the end to find a list of links to the other carnival participants. ***

Please take time to read the submissions by the other carnival participants:

• I Am A Super Hero — Jennifer at Hybrid Rasta Mama shares how she learned the hard way exactly what it means to be a real super hero and not a burned out shell of a human simply pretending to be one.
• Quiet Heroics — Heroism doesn’t have to be big and bold. Read how Jorje of Momma Jorje is a quiet hero…and how you probably are, too.
• Not a Bang, but a Whisper {Carnival of Natural Parenting} — Meegs at A New Day talks about the different types of “superheroes,” ones that come in with a bang and ones that come in with a whisper.
• Silent courage of motherhood in rural Cambodia — Nathalie at Kampuchea Crossings marvels at how rural Khmer women defy the odds in childbirth.
• Super Pappy — Mother Goutte‘s little boy met a superhero in checked slippers and Volkswagen Polo, his grand dad: Super Pappy!
• An Open Letter to Batman — Kati at The Best Things challenges Batman to hold up his end of the deal, in the name of social justice, civic duty, and a little boy named Babe-O!
• My Village — Kellie at Our Mindful Life reflects on the people who helped her to become her best self.
• 5 Lessons My Kids Taught Me — Children are amazing teachers, when we only stop to listen. They remind us to choose happiness, to delight in the small things, to let go and forgive. There is so much we can learn from our children. Justine at The Lone Home Ranger shares a few of the lessons she’s learned.
• Could you use some superpowers? — Tat at Mum in search shares a fun activity to help you connect with your own superpowers.
• Like Fire Engines — Tam at tinsenpup tells the story of the day she saw a surprising superhero lurking in the guise of her not entirely mild-mannered four-year-old daughter.
• Everyday Superheroes — Erica at ChildOrganics shares her list of Walker Warburg Syndrome Superheroes that have touched her life forever.
• My Superhero of the Week: Nancy Gallagher — Tribal Mama muses about the transcendent things her superhero mom has done.
• My choice in natural birth does not make me a super hero — Bianca, The Pierogie Mama, discusses her thoughts on her experience with the perception of natural birth and putting those mamas on a different level. Does giving birth naturally give cause for an extra pat on the back? No! All mamas, no matter how they birth, are superheroes.
• Someone’s Hero — Sometimes being a parent means pretending to be a grown-up, but it always means you are someone’s hero. Read Mandy’s lament at Living Peacefully with Children.
• Growing into a Super Hero — Casey at Joyful Courage shares how owning our behavior and choosing to be a better parent, a better person, is an act of courage.
• A Math Superhero — Kerry at City Kids Homeschooling writes that her 7-year-old daughter’s superhero is an MIT-trained mathematician.
• It Starts With Truffula Trees And Tulips — Luschka of Diary of a First Child takes a hard look at the realities of her relationship with her mother, and through this post goes on a journey of discovery that ends in a surprise realisation for her.
• We Don’t Need an Excuse — Maria Kang (aka “Hot Mom”) asks women #WhatsYourExcuse for not being in shape? Dionna at Code Name: Mama asks Hot Mom what her excuse is for not devoting her life to charity work, or fostering dozens of stray dogs each year, or advocating for the needs of others. Better yet, Code Name: Mama says, how about we realize that every woman has her own priorities. Focus on your own, and stop judging others for theirs.
• It’s not heroic when you’re living it — Lauren at Hobo Mama knows from the inside that homeschooling does not take a hero, and that much of what we choose as parents is simply what works best for us.
• Superheroes, princesses and preschoolers — Garry at Postilius discusses why his preschool-age son is not ready for comic book superheroes.
• The Loving Parents of Children with Special Needs – Everyday Superheroes — Deb Chitwood at Living Montessori Now shares posts with resources for parents of children with special needs along with posts to help others know how to support parents of children with special needs.
• Everyday Empathy — Mommy Giraffe of Little Green Giraffe shares why her secret superpower is everyday empathy.
• The Simplicity of Being a Superhero — Ana at Panda & Ananaso explains what superheroes mean to her wise three-year-old.
• My Father, The Hero — Fathers are pretty amazing; find out why Christine at The Erudite Mom thinks hers is the bees knees.

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