Welcome to the May Carnival of Natural Parenting: Growing in the Outdoors
This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Code Name: Mama and Hobo Mama. This month our participants have shared how they encourage their children to connect with nature and dig in the dirt. Please read to the end to find a list of links to the other carnival participants.
This post is also part of the May Outdoor Teach/Learn Carnival.
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My family has often lived in places where we couldn’t have a garden. We didn’t live in an apartment, but we did have yards that weren’t hospitable to garden plants.
For two years, we lived in a house on a cliff in the Black Hills of South Dakota and then for a year and a half in a rented house in Vail, Colorado. When our kids were 7 and 12, we moved to a house in the Cheyenne Mountain foothills in Colorado Springs, with a yard filled with the wonders of scrub oak, deer, foxes, and even the occasional bear – but a yard that will barely grow grass.
Even though we didn’t have a garden of our own, exploring nature was an important part of our homeschool and use of Montessori principles in our homeschooling. Here are some ideas we used to help our children experience nature and grow plants without the benefit of having our own garden:
Learning from Grandparents’ and Others’ Gardens

Will (15), Christina (10) and Grandpa Glenn on the way to pick potatoes from Grandma and Grandpa's garden, 2000.
We were very lucky that my parents love gardening and always have a large garden. Will and Christina experienced planting seeds, weeding the garden, harvesting, and eating fresh garden vegetables, thanks to their grandma and grandpa. We also have great memories of visiting farmers’ markets and supporting local farmers selling fresh vegetables.
Using Planters and Window Boxes
We could have planted vegetables and herbs in planters – and that would have been a good way to experience gardening without a garden. Because of my parents’ garden and our love of farmers’ markets, we didn’t grow vegetables in our planters. We did have a window box filled with flowers each year when Will and Christina were young, though. Another option would have been square foot gardening, which I think is great.
Pruning Trees and Caring for Growth in the Yard
Will and Christina learned to care for our yard when they were young. Will especially was interested in learning about pruning trees and took on the responsibility of pruning our trees as needed. Both Will and Christina did yard work, including raking leaves.
Hiking and Exploring Nature
We’ve been extremely lucky to live in some of the most beautiful places in the world. We spent a lot of time hiking in the Black Hills as a family, and Will and Christina spent a lot of time hiking and exploring on their own. Will even learned all about rattlesnakes from a neighbor who helped us when a rattlesnake visited our front door. Vail and Colorado Springs also gave our children lots of wonderful places to hike and explore in nature.
I loved discovering new ways for my children to experience nature (and seeing the new ways they discovered on their own). What is your favorite way for your children to experience nature and/or growing plants?
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Please take time to read the submissions by the other carnival participants:
- Get Out! — Momma Jorje gives reasons she doesn’t think she gets outside enough and asks for your suggestions on making time for the outdoors.
- How Does Your Garden Grow? — The ArtsyMama shares her love of nature photography.
- We Go Outside — Amy at Peace 4 Parents describes her family’s simple, experiential approach to encouraging appreciation of nature.
- My Not-So-Green Thumb — Wolfmother confesses to her lack of gardening skills but expresses hope in learning alongside her son at Fabulous Mama Chronicles.
- Enjoying Outdoors — Isil at Smiling like Sunshine describes how her children enjoy the nature.
- Five Ideas to Encourage the Reluctant Junior Gardener — For the rare little ones who don’t like to get their hands dirty, Dionna at Code Name: Mama offers tips for encouraging an early love of dirt (despite the mess).
- Connecting to Nature — Mamapoekie shares how growing your own vegetable patch connects your child to nature and urges them to not take anything for granted.
- The Farmer’s Market Classroom — Jenn at Monkey Butt Junction shares how the Farmer’s Market has become her son’s classroom.
- Seeds — Kat at Loving {Almost} Every Moment‘s hubby Ken shares his perspective on why gardening with their kiddos is so important . . . and enjoyable!
- Toddlers in the Garden — Laura at A Pug in the Kitchen shares her excitement as she continues to introduce her toddler and new baby to the joys of fresh veggies, straight from the garden.
- Nature’s Weave — MJ at Wander Wonder Discover explains how nature weaves its way into our lives naturally, magnetically, experientially, and spiritually.
- Becoming Green — Kristina at Hey Red celebrates and nurtures her daughter’s blossoming love of the outdoors.
- Little Gardener — Rosemary at Rosmarinus Officinalis looks forward to introducing her baby girl to gardening and exploring home grown foods for the first time.
- Cultivating Abundance — You can never be poor if you have a garden! Lucy at Dreaming Aloud reflects on what she cultivates in her garden . . . and finds it’s a lot more than seeds!
- Growing in the Outdoors: Plants and People — Luschka at Diary of a First Child reflects on how she is growing while teaching her daughter to appreciate nature, the origins of food, and the many benefits of eating home-grown.
- How Not to Grow — Anna at Wild Parenting discusses why growing vegetables fills her with fear.
- Growing in the Outdoors — Lily at Witch Mom Blog talks about how connecting to the natural world is a matter of theology for her family and the ways that they do it.
- A Garden Made of Straw — Kelly at Becoming Crunchy shares tips on making a straw bale garden.
- The Tradition of Gardening — Carrie at Love Notes Mama reflects on the gifts that come with the tradition of gardening.
- Gardening Smells Like Home — Bethy at Bounce Me to the Moon hopes that her son will associate home grown food and lovely flowers with home.
- The New Normal — Patti at Jazzy Mama writes about how she hopes that growing vegetables in a big city will become totally normal for her children’s generation.
- Outside, With You — Amy at Anktangle writes a letter to her son, a snapshot of a moment in the garden together.
- Farmer Boy — Abbie at Farmer’s Daughter shares how her son Joshua helps to grow and raise their family’s food.
- Growing Kids in the Garden — Lisa at Granola Catholic shares easy ways to get your kids involved in the garden.
- Growing Food Without a Garden — Don’t have a garden? “You can still grow food!” says Mrs Green of Little Green Blog. Whatever the size of your plot, she shows you how.
- Growing Things — Liz at Garden Variety Mama shares her reasons for gardening with her kids, even though she has no idea what she’s doing.
- Moments — UK Mummy Blogger explains how the great outdoors provides a backdrop for her family to reconnect.
- Condo Kid Turns Composter and Plastic Police — Jessica from Cloth Diapering Mama has discovered that her young son is a true earth lover despite living in a condo with no land to call their own.
- Gardening with Baby — Sheila at A Gift Universe shows us how her garden and her son are growing.
- Why to Choose Your Local Farmer’s Market — Naturally Nena shares why she believes it’s important to teach our children the value of local farmers.
- Unfolding into Nature — At Crunchy-Chewy Mama, Jessica Claire shares her desire to cultivate a reverence for nature through gardening, buying local food, and just looking out the window.
- Urban Gardening With Kids — Lauren at Hobo Mama shares her strategies for city gardening with little helpers — without a yard but with a whole lot of enthusiasm.
- Mama Doesn’t Garden — Laura at Our Messy Messy Life is glad her husband is there to instill the joys of gardening in their children, while all she has to do is sit back and eat homegrown tomato sandwiches.
- Why We Make this Organic Garden Grow — Brenna at Almost All The Truth shares her reasons for gardening with her three small children.
- 5 Ways to Help Your Baby Develop a Love of the Natural World — Charise at I Thought I Knew Mama believes it’s never too early to foster a love of the natural world in your little one.
- April Showers Bring May PRODUCE — Erika at NaMammaSte discusses her plans for raising a little gardener.
- Growing Outside — Seonaid at The Practical Dilettante discovers how to get her kids outside after weeks of spring rain.
- Eating Healthier — Chante at My Natural Motherhood Journey talks about how she learns to eat healthier and encourages her children to do the same.
- The Beauty of Earth and Heavens — Inspired by Charlotte Mason, Erica at ChildOrganics discovers nature in her own front yard.
- Seeing the Garden Through the Weeds — Amanda at Let’s Take the Metro talks about the challenges of gardening with two small children.
- Creating a Living Playhouse: Our Bean Teepee! — Kristin at Intrepid Murmurings shares how her family creates a living playhouse “bean teepee” and includes tips of how to involve kids in gardening projects.
- Grooming a Tree-Hugger: Introducing the Outdoors — Ana at Pandamoly shares some of her planned strategies for making this spring and summer memorable and productive for her pre-toddler in the Outdoors.
- Sowing Seeds of Life and Love — Suzannah at ShoutLaughLove celebrates the simple joys of baby chicks, community gardening, and a semi-charmed country life.
- Experiencing Nature and Growing Plants Outdoors Without a Garden — Deb Chitwood at Living Montessori Now shares some of her favorite ways her family discovered to fully experience nature wherever they lived.
- Garden Day — Melissa at The New Mommy Files is thankful to be part of community of families, some of whom can even garden!
- Teaching Garden Ettiquette to the Locusts — Tashmica from Mother Flippin’ (guest posting at Natural Parents Network) allows her children to ravage her garden every year in the hopes of teaching them a greater lesson about how to treat the world.
- Why I Play with Worms. — Megan of Megadoula, Megamom and Megatired shares why growing a garden and raising her children go hand in hand.












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I love how you didn’t let a little thing like an inhabitable garden stop you getting out there and creating a love of nature for your children!
And how lovely they were able to experience some hands on food growing with their grandparents.
Thanks for sharing such an interesting post; over here in the rainy UK, the idea that you couldn’t grow *something* is quite unbelievable – we may fuss about the rain a lot, but at least it’s easy to grow most crops

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Thanks so much for your kind comment! My kids were definitely lucky to have grandparents who were so willing to give them hands-on gardening experience!
When I lived in England for a year and a half, I was definitely amazed at the way plants can grow in England compared to the Black Hills and much of Colorado! Where we live has 300 days of sunshine a year – wonderful in so many ways except for growing lots of green plants!
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I work at an incredibly urban school (new York) and we struggle every year to get the kids interaction with nature in a meaningful way. Your experience here is really valuable. This year we tried by creating a green rooftop garden and getting wooly pockets (check them out if you’re in an urban school). Any help and experience on that front is incredibly useful to us. Black hills looks amazing!
Thanks, Fernando! Working at an urban school definitely creates challenges in providing experience in nature. Your ideas of creating a green rooftop garden and getting wooly pockets are great, though!

Deb recently posted..Activity of the Week – Doll Washing
Wow, you have lived in some beautiful places!! Sounds like your children have a wonderful foundation for a lifelong love of nature!!
Thanks so much, MJ! I was lucky that our environment did much of the work in that area!

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It’s so true — there are many ways to connect to nature even if your surroundings aren’t arable. I loved visiting my grandparents’ house in the mountains of Colorado and seeing the cactus plants and unusual (to me) desert-like plant growth. My grandma somehow still did manage a million planters and a large vegetable garden, and now I’m belatedly wondering how on earth she did it! I’m guessing lots and lots of irrigation.

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Thanks for your comment, Lauren! I’m impressed with your grandma’s efforts. Of course, there are some places in Colorado that are great for growing plants, but I’ve never lived in one of them! Of course, it’s fun to find alternatives, too!

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I love that you have found ways to connect with nature despite less than ideal conditions for gardening! I also love your corner of the world. I have had many a lovely hike in Cheyenne Canyon. It’s so very beautiful there!
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Thanks, Melissa! We have definitely been blessed in where we’ve lived. The beauty of the area more than made up for the lack of good gardening conditions!

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I love these ideas! Fortunately we have a modest backyard that is proving hospitable to my meager gardening, but before moving in the house, I always lived in apartments and definitely took advantage of houseplants, growing tomatoes and herbs in my stairwell. It’s great that you were able to explore so many other avenues, especially your parents’ gardens. My mother is an uber-gardener, and we’re looking forward to exploring the expansive flower beds she has while our own won’t be quite as robust.
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Thanks, Ana! And I love your ideas for gardening and exploring nature anywhere!

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that picture of the kids with their grampa is priceless:) love it.
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Thanks, Suzannah! I love that photo, too – we have so many awesome memories at my parents’ farm.
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I love exploring nature with my kids, though I often find myself wishing we lived right in the middle of the forest. Great reminders that we can find nature almost anywhere we live. We started square foot gardening last year, and we love it!
Thanks for your comment, Erica! I’ve always thought square foot gardening would be great – it’s wonderful that you’re doing it!

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Wow, it sounds like you lived in some neat places! I absolutely don’t think kids have to have a garden at home to gain an appreciation for gardening and and understanding of food sources — sounds like you had a great range of outdoor/nature experiences for them!
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Thanks, Kristin! It’s amazing how many awesome outdoor experiences are available anywhere – although we were extra lucky to have lived in some breathtakingly beautiful areas!

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A great list! If we don’t get our garden off the ground (ha) this year, I plan on sending Kieran over to our next door neighbor’s garden to help weed and care for her veggies. She’d love to have the help, and I know he’d enjoy it.
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Thanks, Dionna! I’m sure Kieran would love to help your next-door neighbor! I think my kids’ gardening experiences were extra special because they were at their grandma and grandpa’s!

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Love the pictures! Brings back memories of my youth…
Living in an apartment currently myself, I have an Earth box, grow bag and a few planters full of random plants and engage my daughters in watering them daily. You’ve given me hope that they will still enjoy gardening even without a garden!
Thanks, Amanda! It sounds like you’re doing an awesome job of helping your daughters’ develop a love of gardening!

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I have pretty much always lived where we could garden, this really is the first time we live in a place where we are not able to. I miss gardening so much. It is so much fun to see children learning so natural out-of-doors, where they truly thrive the most.
Thanks for your comment, Debbie! That would be difficult to go from having a garden to not being able to. I hope you find a great alternative for your family.
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you seem like having lots of fun. I think a extensive vegetable garden i only for serious devotees and you prove perfectly that nature can be enjoyed and explored without going to that extent
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Thanks so much for your kind comment! I really admire people who are able to have extensive gardens – but we have been very happy experiencing nature in other ways!
Deb recently posted..Activity of the Week – Doll Washing
I love how you describe a garden is not a must have for instilling a love for nature.Great post for the carnival!
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Thanks, Isil! I really appreciate your kind words!
Deb recently posted..Activity of the Week – Doll Washing
Lovely ideas – my boys have many many hours exploring my parents very large gardens too!
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Thanks so much, Monique! Grandparents’ gardens are awesome for kids, aren’t they?!

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That’s a great experience for your children Deb. They will learn to value nature and how to care with the environment. Planting trees would be a great experience as well.
Wonderful post Deb. I like it.